Daisaku Ikeda is the author of a number of children’s stories, some of
which have been illustrated by the celebrated children’s book
illustrator Brian Wildsmith and translated into several languages. The
stories convey the importance of courage, hope, friendship and peace
through the vivid adventures of children in different parts of the
world. Twelve of the stories have been adapted and animated for
television and broadcast in 25 countries.
Three friends climb a treacherous mountain to find out what is
glittering at its summit. Faced with unexpected challenges, they learn
the power of creativity and imagination, which will help them in their
quest.
The unhappy Sachiko can’t stand the sight of food and is becoming more
and more frail and ill. The Moon, who watches over all the world’s
children, sends a magical rabbit to intervene.
The haughty young prince of Jambe learns from a humble village boy what a true prince is.
A story about the friendship between a lonely boy and a magical deer he saves from hunters.
In devastated postwar Japan, hope and courage are found in unsuspected
places. Amidst burnt out buildings and blackened fields, a young boy
discovers an aged man tending an old, apparently dead cherry tree. A
story about the power of hope.
A princess and her animal companions venture into the formidable desert
in search of a water source to save their ailing kingdom. In the course
of their difficult journey, they discover the key to reviving their
land.
Source: http://www.daisakuikeda.org/
"The influence of a mother on her child is like the air around him, invisible, but supreme in its power and importance. Even without words, a mother's outlook on life will naturally be communicated to her child and influence him."
The mothers of this world deserve the greatest respect because they have the greatest power and responsibility- that of bringing forth and nurturing new life. The well-being of each family member, every society or nation, even the entire world, ultimately lies on their shoulders. I wish to congratulate all mothers struggling to raise children- your precious work is actually creating the greatest possible value. I hope you take great pride in what you are doing.
Through contact with their mothers, children can learn how to bear up under difficult circumstance. They also develop the ability to tell right from wrong and the courage to stand up fo what is right. Children watch everything their mother does. If a child sees her mother telling a lie, and thinking nothing of it, that becomes his/her first lesson in how to be a skillful liar. On the other hand, if their mother is a always forward-looking and lively, though they may never win material wealth or social status, children will inherit the most valuable treasure- a spiritual strength that can never be broken, Such inner fortitude is what determines whether a child will lead a life of happiness or unhappiness.
And generally speaking, the more difficult her family's circumstances become, the stronger the mother is. If the mother is strong, her family will invincible, regardless of the hardships they face.
In The Grapes of of Wrath, John Steinbeck's famous novel about a family who travel westward across the United States in search of work during the Great Depression of the 19030s, the author describes the indestructible strength of "Ma," the mother of the family. father asks of the move to the west, "can we, Ma?" She replies firmly, "It ain't 'can we?"- it's "will we?' As far as 'can', we can't do nothin', not go to California or nothin'; but as far as 'will,' why we'll do what we will."
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| The Grapes of Wrath |
The land of their dreams turns out to be overcrowded with families desperate for jobs, and the family suffers a series of tragedies. Steinbeck describes ma's refusal to give up as follows: "Her hazel eyes seemed to have experiences all possible tragedy and to have mounted pain and suffering likes steps into a high calm and superhuman understanding." She let her soul shine though, like the sun high above dark clouds of suffering. "and since old Tom and the children could not know hurt or fear unless she acknowledged hurt and fear she practiced denying them in herself." So she conquered herself first, never being impatient or complaining.
When the sun is obscured, so is the whole world. But when the sun smiles, the whole world sighs with relief. A mother is truly like the sun warning everyone, often suffering on behalf of others and even regarding doing so as a joy.
However, I do not feel it is always right to praise the showering of a mother's selfless, sometimes overpowering love on a child. Some mothers, because of their strong, blind love, indulge their children's wishes too much and in the end spoil them. What was originally meant for the child's happiness may actually make him/her miserable later on, as he/she will struggle to adjust once he/she interacts with other people, realizing that he/she is not the center of the world. Sometimes gentleness needs to be paired with discipline of a mother is to teach her child how to be truly human.
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| My Mom and I |
An ancient Chinese tale describes how the mother of a powerful general scolded her son who had come home in triumph from battle. She refused to let him int her home. Through a messenger she scolded him. saying, "What have you done? Your soldiers were poorly fed while you were eating luxurious dinners. You sent people to die in battle while you sat in comfort in the General's chair. You may have won the battle, but your leadership was false. You are not my son.. I will not let you enter my house." Fortunately he listened to his mother's powerful words and developed into a stronger and wiser leader who cared for his people.
No matter how busy a woman is with work, household chores and parenting, it is also important never to neglect one's own growth as a human being. Children are looking for examples in parents, people they can respect and look up to. Hence, a mother's own inner development is a lifelong process that should not be forgotten. Effective mothers are not mothers who gain satisfaction from having sacrificed their lives for their children. Effective mothers are those who continue to polish and improve themselves.
A woman who has lost awareness of herself as an individual and has no desire to grow may be thanked for all she's dine, but her ability to inspire respect from her children will be limited. A mother's way of living- her character- is the most treasure she can give her children.
Almost every mother has loving arms and a brave heart, but what counts is how broad her outlook is. Only a woman who has love of justice and a desire for peace will have the courage and confidence to treat everyone with affection, and be able to raise children with a strong spirit, creativity and broad-mindedness.
And when women extend their motherly love, not only to heir own children but also to the whole society, and they unite with others mothers to speak out against the wrongs in society, I believe they will start to change the world,
i would like to share some lines from a poem of mine, called 'Salute to Mothers'
Salute to Mothers
Mother
you are sublime
noble, indomitable.
You are gentle
yet stronger than anyone.
Always smiling,
you can be engaging or
intimidating.
And while you
may appear child-like
you are a perceptive student of live
with a doctoral degree
in daily living
Through suffering, joy or sadness,
you always create a realm
of ease and comfort.
You are a brilliant physician in
healing the heart's wounds.
Your own heart
is deeper than the ocean,
with your open, truth-seeing eyes, your warm, familiar smile.
Forging bonds of joy
with everyone you meet,
you engage in compassionate
fight for human rights, for peace,
always advancing
one further step towards a better world.
no one can match or better you-
not the famous
not the politically powerful.
Completely unconcerned
by your lack of wealth,
your smile, serene and unperturbed.
You prepare your simple fare,
laughing, praising yourself,
'Better then the best restaurant!"
You celebrate cramped housing as
more efficient and easier to clean!'
When people slander, you know
who is a liar
who is a hypocrite
who is driven by jealously.
Your powers of perception
are unrivaled by
any prosecuting attorney.
never submitting
to the power of authority
or malicious lies,
you are a mother
of truth and justice.
To you, my gratitude.
To you, my most
profound respect.
Daisaku Ikeda
Mirror Weekly
by Ryuei Michael McCormick. 2000, 2002
My Sister and Nephew
In Nichiren Buddhism, it is considered very important to be
aware of and to repay the four debts of gratitude. These four
debts consist of all sentient beings, one’s parents, the
sovereign (in our day our constitutional rights or perhaps
democracy itself might be substituted for the sovereign), and
finally the Three Treasures of Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha.
Since
today is Mother’s Day is, I would like to talk about the
importance of repaying our debt of gratitude to our parents and
especially our mothers. There is a sutra called The Sutra
About the Deep Kindness of Parents and the Difficulty of
Repaying It. I believe that it was written in China and not
India, nevertheless it provides a very graphic description of the
kinds of sacrifices that our parents, especially mother’s
make for us. At this time, let me just share the summary of the
ten types of kindness bestowed by a mother on her child according
to the sutra:
The second is the kindness of bearing suffering during the
birth.
The third is the kindness of forgetting all the pain once
the
child has been born.
The fourth is the kindness of eating the bitter herself and
saving the sweet for the child.
The fifth is the kindness of moving the child to a dry
place
and lying in the wet herself.
The sixth is the kindness of suckling the child at her
breast
and nourishing and bringing up the child.
The seventh is the kindness of washing away the unclean.
The eighth is the kindness of always thinking of the child
when it has traveled far.
The ninth is the kindness of
The first is the kindness of providing protection and
care while the child is in the womb.
deep care and devotion.
The tenth is the kindness of ultimate compassion and
sympathy.
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| My Mom and Me |
It should go without saying that our relationship with our
parents sets the tone for our whole life. In fact, many sutras
use the parent-child relationship as a model for the ideal
attitude that one should have in one’s relationships with
others. They do this for two reasons. The first is that it is
assumed that the bond of affection between parents and their
children is the most powerful, natural and selfless possible for
the vast majority of human beings. The second reason is that in
the context of the Buddhist teaching of rebirth, it is very
likely that one has actually been in a parent-child relationship
with any given sentient being at one time or another. In fact,
the Brahma Net Sutra which Nichiren cites in his writings
describes the outlook of the bodhisattvas in the following
manner:
He takes all sentient beings to be his father, mother,
brother, and sister, and for their sakes he voices the Dharma
for as much time as is needed for them to realize the fruits
of the Way. For the sake of all sentient beings he reveals
all lands and looks upon each person as a father or mother
would. Maras and non-Buddhists, as well, he looks upon as a
father or mother would.
Viewing things in this manner, one can see how the debt of
gratitude to one’s father and mother can easily include the
debt to all living beings as well, since they can all be
considered former or future parents. Naturally this exaltation of
filial piety as the supreme basis for ethics in Buddhism comes
very close to Confucianism. Nichiren also makes this connection
in his major work, the Kaimoku Sho, wherein he observes
that filial piety is the most important value that unites
Confucianism and Buddhism:
The 3,000 scrolls of Confucian writings can be boiled
down to two: filial devotion and loyalty to the ruler.
Loyalty also stems from filial devotion. To be filial means
to be high; heaven is high but not at all higher than being
filial. To be filial also means deep; the earth is deep but
not any deeper than being filial. Both sages and wise men
also come from filial devotion. How much more should students
of Buddhism realize the favors they receive and repay them?
Disciples of the Buddha should not fail to feel grateful for
the Four Favors (received from parents, people, sovereign and
Buddhism) and repay them.
Moreover, such men
of the Two Vehicles as Sariputra and Kasyapa kept 250 Buddhist
Commandments, lived a life of
dignity in accordance with 3,000 rules, progressively
mastered the three steps of meditation, completely studied
the Agon Sutras (Hinayana scriptures) and won liberty
from all delusions and evil passions in the world of
unenlightened people. They should be examples of people who
know the Four Favors and repay them. In spite of all this,
the Buddha condemned them for not realizing what they had
owed. The reason for this is that it is for the purpose of
saving parents that a man leaves his parent’s house and
takes a Buddhist vow, but those men of the Two Vehicles, who
free themselves from delusions and evil passions, do not save
others. Even if they help others to a certain degree, they
are still to be blamed for not repaying what they owe their
parents so long as their parents are left wandering on the
path with no possibility whatsoever of obtaining Buddhahood.

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According to Nichiren, filial piety is the highest secular
and religious value. Patriotism, loyalty and all other
relationships are subsumed by it. Even within Buddhism itself, it
separates the narrow-minded and self-concerned Hinayana from the
broad-minded and compassionate Mahayana. In fact, even the value
of the various Mahayana teachings can be gauged by the degree to
which they enable one to help one’s parents attain
Buddhahood. As one of Nichiren’s most important works, it is
remarkable how much of the Kaimoku Sho is devoted to the
question of how to practice true filial piety and repay the debt
of gratitude to one’s father and mother. This shows how
important Nichiren himself considered this particular debt.
Throughout all of his letters and treatises, Nichiren extols the Lotus
Sutra as the highest teaching of Buddhism and the one that
should be upheld at all costs. In the Kaimoku Sho,
Nichiren explains why the Lotus Sutra is superior to all
other Buddhist and non-Buddhist (Confucianism and Brahmanism)
teachings in terms of its ability to allow one to repay the debt
to one’s father and mother:
Filial devotion preached in Confucianism is limited to
this life. Confucian sages and wise men are such in name only
because they do not help their parents in their future lives.
Brahmans know of the past as well as the future, but they do
not know how to help parents. Only Buddhism is worthy of
being the way of sages and wise men, as it helps parents in
future lives. However, both Mahayana and Hinayana sutras
expounded before the Lotus Sutra preach Buddhahood in
name only, without substance. Therefore the practitioners of
such sutras would not be able to obtain Buddhahood even for
themselves, not to talk about helping parents obtain
Buddhahood. Now coming to the Lotus Sutra, when
enlightenment of women was revealed, enlightenment of mothers
was realized; and when a man as wicked as Devadatta could
attain Buddhahood, enlightenment of fathers was realized.
These are the two proclamations of the Buddha in the
“Devadatta” chapter, and this is the reason why the
Lotus Sutra is the sutra of the filial way among all
the Buddhist scriptures.
Nichiren is referring here to the instantaneous
transformation of the Dragon
King’s daughter into a buddha (the only such “contemporary”
attainment of buddhahood
by anyone other than Shakyamuni Buddha in the sutras) and to the
Buddha’s prophecy of buddhahood for his treacherous cousin
Devadatta
in the “Devadatta” chapter of the Lotus Sutra. Since no other
sutra provided such
“guarantees” of buddhahood for all men and women,
Nichiren felt that no other sutra could enable one to repay the
debt of gratitude to one’s parents. With the teaching of the
Lotus Sutra, however, one could enable one’s mother
and father to realize buddhahood for themselves, thus repaying
one’s obligation to them.
How can the Lotus Sutra enable our parents to achieve
Buddhahood? I would say that through our deep faith in the Lotus
Sutra we gain confidence and trust in the Buddha’s
teaching that we can attain Buddhahood. This allows us to gain
peace of mind and the ability to create a stable and happy life
for ourselves, and our families. This alone will bring our
parents peace of mind and even joy, because parents worry the
most about their children’s happiness and well being, and if
their children are happy, most parents are also very happy. More
importantly, by demonstrating the value of a life centered on
faith in the Lotus Sutra, we are able to engender a
spiritual awakening or even a rebirth in others, even our
parents. At the very least we plant the seed of the Wonderful
Dharma in their lives and give them something to reflect upon and
from which to gain hope. Our parents gave us birth, so it is up
to us to repay them by planting the seed for a spiritual birth
through our own sincere efforts and faith in the Lotus Sutra.