Chanting to become a woman of
unlimited self-esteem - is the best medicine. When Amy chanted that
way, everything in her life changed.
You can analyze your
situation all you want . . . you have to get to the root of why you
don't believe in the greatness of our own life. You have to grab the
'doubt of your greatness' by the root, and yank it out of your life.
You must chant to awaken to your greatness. Chant to appreciate and
value your own life. The answer is probably simple. But, since we
over-analyze our situation, it gets complicated and the solution seems
farther away. When Amy followed Danny's guidance, it was unbelievable
what she felt inside. Your mission as a Buddhist is to be happy – not
master suffering. We have the negative part of us, and the positive
part of us. There's a part of us that believes we can do it, and then
the negative part says, 'Who are you kidding?'
You have to
fight to not give into your negativity. This is not just about your
being a writer, a doctor, a secretary, or whatever your profession
maybe. It is about you becoming the woman you always wanted to become -
a woman who really values your life. This is an amazing opportunity.
THE OBSTACLES YOU FACE ARE THE ANSWER TO YOUR PRAYERS. Those feelings
of self-doubt, chase those feelings away -- 'I'm just a scam artist,
doctor, lawyer, etc., a failure. – Those feelings you have to face and
then chase them away. How you feel about yourself -- that feeling of
self-loathing, of not being good enough, of not answering the phone,
because it may be someone you are accountable to professionally - those
are feelings you have to face and then chase them away.
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Your
talent is not the question. It's how you feel about yourself. This is
karma. You need to value your own life, appreciate your own life . This
has nothing to do with someone validating you. Amy said she followed
her heart. She followed her Buddhahood and the effect from that, the
benefit from that was MASSIVE. You have to follow your heart and truly
treasure your life. When you sit in front of the Gohonzon, chant to
have the most reverence for your life. The Gohonzon is the embodiment
of your enlightened life. Your life deserves that kind of reverence.
When Nichiren Daishonin inscribed the Dai-Gohonzon, he was chanting
Daimoku already (out of the greatness of his own wisdom he inscribed
the Dai-Gohonzon for all humanity) so everyone could relieve their own
suffering.
IF YOU CAN CHANT FOR 2-WEEKS TO REALLY BE A WOMAN OF
UNLIMITED SELF-ESTEEM, AND TO REALLY TRULY APPRECIATE YOUR LIFE, YOUR
FLAWS, YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS, YOUR DEFEATS, YOUR LOSSES, YOUR VICTORIES,
WHAT YOU HAVE CREATED, APPRECIATE YOUR TALENT - FOR 2 WEEKS—THEN
EVERYTHING WILL CHANGE.
FORGET about all the past suffering in
your life. That will just make you feel more impotent. Put it away.
From now on, really chant about being a woman of unlimited self-esteem.
Really appreciate everything from your life. – All the things about
you, that make you incredibly unique and wonderful. And, remember that
all the negative feelings – the heartaches—you will be able to use to
inspire and help others. This is the suffering you need to share your
experience and help others change. Focus on really, awakening your
greatness. This is the opportunity you needed to go through, so that
you can become outrageously successful. So you can fulfill your dreams.
If you focus on this – really valuing your life now, then everything
will fall into place. And, in a much bigger way—self worth and
self-respect will emerge . And it is something no one can give you. The
universe is showing you what you need to tackle.
When you
first chant this way, a lot of negativity may come out of your life.
Awful feelings may surface. Let it pass through you, like the flu.
Transform the darkness. See the enlightened side of your fear. We
always bring into our lives what matches our life condition, so don't
fear it. Chant to feel incredible joy about your worth. When you get
yourself to a place where you can absolutely see the miracle of your
own life, the greatness of your own life, everything in your life will
completely transform. We have to believe in our own Buddha nature. When
we face the Gohonzon, we should say, 'I am going to praise my own
wonderful life.'
It is important to awaken to our own
greatness. Now is the time for you to start over. Your life is the
Gohonzon! When you pray to a deity, your prayers are passive. Our lives
are the Mystic Law. You must appreciate and value your own life. The
Gohonzon is not outside of you. When you receive a benefit, it was you
who created it. This is active prayer. You must awaken to your
greatness. Believe in the greatness, in the magnificence of your own
life. The Gohonzon is the manifestation of Nichiren Daishonin's
enlightenment. Just as a beautiful piece of art elicits a response, or
a great book touches your life in a certain way, we must elicit the
Buddha nature from our own lives. It is right there. The Gohonzon is
the perfect vehicle to bring out our greatest potential.
So,
when you display your Buddhahood, bring out that strength, joy, that
vibrant life condition, then you take that to the world and change the
environment. We're not necessarily chanting for the house, the car, and
the relationship . . . but we are chanting to elevate our life
condition to attract that happiness . The results we see in our own
lives are a reflection of our life condition. Every day, chant to
manifest your Buddha nature consistently. Chant to rise above your
basic tendency (I think mine is anger).
Chant with the
expectation 'I WILL MANIFEST MY BUDDHAHOOD!' And that's what will
arise. I create my own fortune. I am a Buddha, and I will manifest it
everyday. I have to believe I deserve boundless happiness. The Buddha
is who I really am. Every day I must manifest my Buddhahood and rise
above the belief that I am a mere common mortal who does not deserve
fortune in her life. Don't negate your life when you are in front of
the Gohonzon. Don't beg, scream and don't berate the Gohonzon or your
own life. The Gohonzon is the tool we need to bring out our Buddhahood.
My life is the Gohonzon . Don't slander your life. I will fulfill every
one of my dreams, for ME. We already possess something incredible – our
Buddha nature, the Gohonzon. But sometimes we don't believe it.
But,
we have everything we need to get us out of poverty, to transform our
lives. But if I don't believe that the billion dollars (figure of
speech for GREAT benefit) is mine, I won't be able to enjoy it. It is
time to CASH THE CHEQUE. TRUST THAT THE GOHONZON IS THE ABSOLUTE MEANS
FOR YOU TO TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE. TRUST IS THE KEY WORD. CHANT WITH THE
EXPECTATION THAT EVERY ONE OF YOUR WILDEST DREAMS WILL BE FULFILLED
BEYOND YOUR WILDEST IMAGINATION. CHANT TO BELIEVE IN YOUR BUDDHAHOOD.
TRUST IN THE GREATNESS OF YOUR LIFE.
In 'On Attaining
Buddhahood' Nichiren Daishonin makes the primary point – to free
ourselves from the sufferings of birth and death we have endured in
lifetime after lifetime and to attain absolute happiness we must awaken
to the mystic truth that has always been within our lives – that truth
is Nam-Myoho-Renge- Kyo. That truth is that I am a BUDDHA.
Amy
got guidance to chant for the right man to come into her life for her
happiness. It seemed too easy, she said. She questioned the guidance
''what if he is a midget? What if he is poor?'' But that day she met
her husband. Trust the power of your Daimoku. Your life will be HUGE!
Put your life first. Trust that ''billion-dollar check''(you are afraid
to cash) does exist. Trust that you have EVERYTHING you need for your
happiness – it is in the Gohonzon – it is in your life!
When
you look at the Gohonzon know that you have exactly what you need to
fulfill every prayer and become wildly, extraordinary happy!
Positive Discussion Points on Becoming Women of Unlimited Self Esteem
Ø Believe we can do it
Ø Fight to not give into negativity
Ø Become the woman you want to be
Ø Value your life
Ø Appreciate your life including your flaws
Ø Treasure your life
Ø Have reverence for your life
Ø Forget about the past sufferings in your life
Ø Believe that you are incredibly unique and wonderful
Ø Become outrageously successful at fulfilling your dreams
Ø Praise your own wonderful life
Ø Create your own benefit in your life
Ø Bring out our strength, joy and vibrant-life condition
Ø Believe in your own Buddha nature
Ø Realize that your life is the Gohonzon
Ø Manifest your extraordinary side
Ø Fulfill all of your dreams
Ø You have everything you need to transform your life
Negative discussion points on becoming Women of Unlimited self-esteem
Ø Not believing in our greatness
Ø Who are we kidding - we can't do it
Ø Feelings of self doubt
Ø Believing we are not good enough
Ø Self loathing
Ø Needing the validation of others
Ø I am a mere mortal who does not deserve fortune in my life
Ø Begging to, screaming to, or berating the Gohonzon/our own life
Ø I can't do it
Ø Holding on to past sufferings in our lives
Prayers to Enhance Becoming Women of Unlimited Self Esteem
Ø Chant to awaken to my greatness, my magnificence
Ø Chant to appreciate the value of my life
Ø Chant to be happy
Ø Chant to appreciate my talent
Ø Chant to feel incredible joy about my worth
Ø Chant to manifest my Buddha nature consistently
Ø Chant to rise about my basic negative tendency
Ø Chant to forget about the past garbage in my life
Ø Believe in my own Buddha nature
Ø Realize that my life is the Gohonzon
Ø Trust that the Gohonzon is the means to transform my life
Chant to become a woman of unlimited self-esteem